I have to agree with Pajo. I'm worried this will lead to more angry texts. Has she responded yet?
Would you feel comfortable saying something like "I'm sorry you feel like I'm taking too much time on his birthday. I love S13 and I want what's best for him. Can you please select one of the solutions I offered?"
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16