Z I am glad you find strength in me and it is useful to you. I'd be curious to know more about what strength you see in me.
Tonight I am invited for a drink with some mates. Am pretty wrecked after work but I may go. The rest of the weekend is pretty full but a lot of it is family stuff. But I will have some sport too.
This evening I got home and lately we chat sometimes together when I arrive. Anyway this evening my W was on for talking but was clearly off. One of our neighbours just told her she is splitting with her H. It is so hard to not bring us up at such times. I said soon the neighborhood will be full of bachelors.She looked puzzled but then realised I meant that this guy is the third since we loved there four years ago. I wanted to scream let's get out of here before the curse gets us...... but then maybe it already has.
I am not going to mindread my W nor snoop to see if she mentions why she is off. I have my path. I know that any day she could drop a bomb but I am not going to stress about that until it happens.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together