Yes. Good points guys. I am doing pretty good at GAL otherwise I wouldnt even entertain thoughts of ending it. I will mull it over for quite a while. My plan would not be to pine away for her during the sep. but rather move on. Easy to say I know. Even if we were able to try to reconcile, huge if according to her, it would be long way back with much MC.
I guess I owe it to my S and also W to give it a try. Feel like such shmuck. Like everybody who knows her knows a secret that I don't. Like she is only using this to get out on her own and ease out of the M. I am never one to make rash decisions. Never have been. I am more prone to overthink which causes much stress. I think my decision will be easier made once she does move out.
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016