Back again 8 years later

[someguy1233]

I understand the struggle! Some days it feels like it would be easier to just rip off the band-aid and get it done with. It would give us the feeling of being in control of our lives and take away the limbo. But you should really think about it before taking drastic steps. You need to be confident in your decision for more than a day or two.

But here's the thing. You can be in control now. That's the beauty of the DB plan. Take control of the things in life that you can control. Have you made a list like Thornton did in his thread? It's something I've been mulling over the last day. Make a list of what YOU want to do in life both short term and long term. Apply an action item to each of those and then go out and have fun checking things off your list.