6 months before the separation my wife started taking better care of herself, going to the gym, tanning, getting really nice clothes and doing her hair. My wife then went through a time when she started going to the club with her sister, hanging out with some of her work friends and she started getting on the phone a lot, facebooking and texting and being really secretive about her phone. During this time, she totally became a different person, she was like a teenager trapped in my wife's body. She ignored the kids and was all about this music group that she has loved since she was younger, even texting and talking to two of the singers. While she was doing that I was knee deep in feeling sorry for myself and trying to make her happy.
