Not Confused Anymore 2!!!

[Joe46]

HELLO EVERYONE!! Wow, it has been a few months since I have been on here!! I see Sandi and V and some others are still giving great advice!!

I was digging through some stuff the other day and found some things from this site. I remember hearing about how alot of people come and go and no one really hears about what happens to them. So I decided to come back and give an update on my life. So much has happened!!!

To begin, I am now divorced as of yesterday! I am at peace with everything. My kids are doing REALLY good. Still in counseling but we are going once a month now. They are doing great in school. I did get custody of the kids. The judge did sign off on my parenting plan. Ex wife never filed what she was supposed to so the judge took her default.

Step kids are doing good. Step son just had a baby!! I am a grandpa!! Don't hear from oldest stepson much. Both step daughter and younger stepson are still struggling with what their mom has done. I have been there to listen and support them the best I can.

I am now friends with the stepkids dad. Come to find out XW did the same thing to him. He found out she had a boyfriend when her boyfriend came to his house looking for her!! Crazy!!
Stepson and step daughter both said they are just sick of men coming in and out of their lives!!

I am doing well. I am reading alot. Still working on myself. I learned so much from the people here. I think one of the biggest things I learned was patience. I learned to not over react. I learned to listen. I also learned boundaries!! That has been a big one. I believe God stepped in and brought me here to help me!! I can not thank everyone here enough for everything!! Even the 2x4's!!