Hey all,

Here's a question. in UK on 6th March its Mothers Day.
traditionally I've always made breakfast in bed, fresh colourful flowers, choc croissants and cards and gifts from my boys.

What do I do this year ? What is considered do'able within detachment ?
Do I do nothing but if the boys want to make her something help, after all she chose to leave and if I am the one doing it all is it a bit transparent as its obviously from me and not the boys ?
Do I buy a card from them ?

Really unsure on this...Any thoughts ?


me45,W43 S9,S5
T15yrs M10yrs
BD 4/07/15
W wants D 4/07/15
W filed 8/05/15
D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas,
W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16