I think WWs don't know how to react with you validate. I think the anger they have in them, needs to come out so when you do not engage and validate instead, they do not get the reaction they want from you. It make them spin so in order to pull you into the conflict they want they try attacking your validation.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16