Very impressed with your actions and plan! You're doing great!

I usually advocate staying in the marital home, but in your case, I might start looking around for a place, since the house is in his name only and he is not very good with boundaries. It may be difficult for you to stop him from entering the house on a whim, and if you leave, he can't claim that he doesn't have a place to have the kids for visits. But check with your L before doing anything.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17