Thorn, I don't think there's anything wrong with avoiding triggers as long as it's not impacting you and your goals.
I had an appointment yesterday that put me in an area of town W and I went to frequently. I intentionally walked new streets avoiding the harsh trip down memory lane. Instead I enjoyed the sites of new places and things. Stay positive by choice
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
