Originally Posted By: CWOL
Originally Posted By: someguy1233
W is sleeping on the couch now instead of the bed... more room for me? (Trying to think of the positives!)


Don't leave the house and don't leave your bed. She's the one that wants to leave, so she should.
Be careful about talking to her about legal issues like not leaving the house. It will spook her and make your D more difficult later if/when it comes to that (she'll think you're controlling, etc.)
Sniff for signs of A.


Thanks CWOL.
I still feel somewhat uncertain about the decision. One of her complaints is that she felt like I always got my way and disapproved of what she wanted. Which is true, but often times she ended up getting what she wanted with my disapproval.

I feel like I'm dancing this line between standing up for myself (less nice-guy) and being controlling.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done