I'm concerned that she is talking about being best friends while also attending marriage therapy.
Therapy only works when both people are fully engaged with the goal of reconciling the marriage.
I went through this myself. WAW used the therapy as an excuse to say "she tried". We "were too broken" because therapy didn't work.
Truth is, therapy didn't work because she didn't want it to work.
We started therapy 3-4 months ago when W wasn't sure if she wanted to stay or D. Going to the last session was my idea. I'm thinking about cancelling any further sessions. The therapist also does family separation/divorce counseling so I don't want her putting more ideas in W's head. HOWEVER, a few months back the therapist did help get W to slow down and think hard about her decisions.
Is it generally frowned upon to do therapy if both parties aren't committed?
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
