Hey AP,

Looks like we are near the same stage, house going on the market and working out who is going to look after the kids. You are not alone in this, I am going through it too. Time in house S is about the same too.

It is not fun but we can get through it. Its good you are at least looking into the child care issue and thinking about it. Ask you do that with the other things you will find solutions. Like your house, it needs to be sold, can you agree with that? If one person wants to sell you cant hold them back. So get to the next step of figuring out where your going to live. I think once you see your options with that you will feel better. You will find a new place to live. Once you find it or have an idea where your going to go you will start plan you life around that.

As sure as you woke up this morning you can do this!


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016