I'm trying not to allow myself feel like a victim. After all, I chose to be in a R with a recovering alcoholic. But part of me does feel victimized, I feel like I went above and beyond for our relationship (I'm codependent after all) and she took advantage of that and hung me out to dry.
Choices buddy....you made them, she made them...
She didn't do anything to you, that you didn't allow...
Dust off, and change your perspective.
Originally Posted By: Thornton
So while I stress about how to pay the mortgage, and all the bills, she gets to live with her mother for free and save money to get her own place.
I know I need to suck it up and move forward, but for now, I'm angry.
