Nel, I truly hope that I am wrong, but right now, he feels guilty for what he's doing and w/that being said, he'll be more generous...but look out when you actually sit down and work out the details of the financials and support when the divorce needs this info.
Maybe you will be one of the lucky ones whereby he's generous no matter what. I certainly hope so, but I've seen so many pass through our forum that have generous MLCers at first and when they continue on the path of destruction, they begin to get greedy or when they are hit w/what the state laws require for a divorce, i.e., they change into angry monsters. Again, I hope your h remains generous...but time will tell.
For now, take whatever he gives you and set up an account just in case you need the funds later on.
How are you doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
