Your husbamds antics are a bit perplexing, he has no real clue what to do right now...he has lost all of his control over you and he is not aure what to think or do about that.
I am so glad you can see all of it for what it is and not for some symbol or eeffort on his part to try to get you back or whatever. You know it is all about control and you have stepped out of his grasp.
You are heroic in my mind, i have seen first hand husband and wives who were so vwry qbusivw to thier spouse and they continue on in thier marriages today....they lack the knowledge, strength and courage to walk away as you have.
I know this has left scars, but i am teading every day the legacy of those acars...where you have chosen to overcome them and turn thst pain into something positive and help these we folks out with what you have learned and continue to learn. You help give us strength when we have not enough on pur own. You give us wisdom where we lack, you give us guidwmce when weve lost our way and sometime you give us a stern skap on the @$$ to get moving in the right direction
