Hi Tad, my quote: Tell me, if your lady friend asked you to go out somewhere would you jump at the chance?
Your reply: Sure. I'd love to go out with her. Right now, we are just friends.
The reason I asked this question was to find out why you don't like going out much on your own. And I think you've answered it, it's like you can't quite seem to enjoy life on your own somehow, is this correct?
If your mindset was perhaps to change then you'll give out more positive vibes, which in turn will attract more positive responses back to you. Do you get that?
I would like to share something now, my ex's first known diary. She received it for Christmas 1975, I didn't get to see it till after we were married (Apr 81) So I first saw it soon after this and I last saw it in the late 90's (She destroyed it around this time cos I took her up on her comments).
Well she started out well but only filled in entries for the first 2 weeks of Jan 76. My take on it was she was very bored and I wasn't very big in her life then, also she didn't seem to have any hobbies, but I know she was a good drawing artist. All she seemed to do was go and visit her best friend in her village.
In Jan 77 she began to fill that same diary in again starting the last 2 weeks of that month just altering the date's cos they were one day out of course! Well you couldn't believe the difference, it was like she was now a different person, why? well to me it looks like she got what she was perhaps looking for, Delboy & his family. She was now living at our house for about 4 days a week. I would see her at her house about 2 nites a week also. She could catch her works bus from our Avenue. So she must have thought she got it made.
Just before I met her she & her mate & others had a week in the Isle of Man, the TT races. She said she also visited the Laxey wheel, which also had a wishing well, she tossed in a coin to the fairies wishing for a boyfriend. And look who turned up!
