One other very important question: My brother-in-law just called me and left a voicemail message. He will be in our town this weekend and wanted to stop and see his nephews (i.e. my kids). What in the heck do I do in this situation? Before my H was such a jerk, I would've been happy to have him over to see the boys. Do I just go ahead and let him come to see them and not talk at all about the D and his idiot brother? Or, do I just say it is not a good time....
This is about uncle and nephews. Stick to uncles and nephews.
Boundary
If BIL talks about WH and I and R then I will say "can we make this about uncles and nephews please. The boys love having a doting uncle to play with". And if he persists then "I am more comfortable with staying away from talks about my R". Called fogging.
If it truly isn't a good time say so and suggest an alternate. Why deprived the boys of reasonable quality adult male role model?
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
