NYGal still trying

[needgrace]

Hi NYGal,

the more I think about those caught up in affairs...

i believe that guilt is a really really uncomfortable feeling.. and the more the W/H sees you, hears you and feels your pain.. the greater the guilt.. and the more they want to run away from the guilt (which they think is caused by you, not their actions)

so i think that is part of the reason that NC works.. you are no longer there to blame for all this uncomfortable feelings...