I guess you are seeking my view because you know what I am going to say?
You have had wonderful advice from Zues and Jellyb and great support and a lot of their advice is in my post although in my own way. I want you to take this with the spirit of support I intend, often I bite my tongue because I sense the poster may not be ready to shift.
You are playing far too nice and as mentioned by V before being triangulated.
WH is clearly enthralled by Bubbles, and she is an absolute minx having her ego boosted by triangulating herself. I suspect her WH is amused by it. I also suspect that madam is minxing.
My lovely not only have you played along with this you gave it your blessing. Encouragement even.
You apologised to the princess bubbles, attended her parties and all of you are behaving like 15 year olds out dating.
WH is being made a complete idiot.
You can't nice WH back, nor can you buy little gifts or keep persuing. He will have to learn he is being had and strung along by a truly unpleasant POW.The only way to do this is for WH to learn what life is like without you.
Detaching isn't enough. Zues has said that to you over and over in his inimitable way.
Time to get real and start to DB. To apply Sandis guidelines deliberately.
The only way to stop the school girlie interactions is to grow a pair and let go of the emotional rope.
This WH has sacked you as his W. If your boss sacked you would you go back with chocolates and flowers giggling and showing a smiling face?
This sounds very harsh when reality is biting, I know this.
I would like to shake you awake.
This likely isn't what you want to hear and you can choose to skip merrily like Pollyanna into the sunshine.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
