Agree...transparency. I'm not sure how to handle the 'reconcile to quickly' stuff.
Reality is that we are living in the same house, using same finances, and living differnent lives, with exception of our girls...
However...she verbalizes (I know not to trust this) that she is 'IN', and she willingly goes to MC every few weeks. So...part of me wants out of the limbo so I will start touching on the real issues.
May not be the right approach. Probably not, since it is what I want. lol
It wouldn't be DBing to do some that wasn't counterintuitive. haha
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo
