One other very important question: My brother-in-law just called me and left a voicemail message. He will be in our town this weekend and wanted to stop and see his nephews (i.e. my kids). What in the heck do I do in this situation? Before my H was such a jerk, I would've been happy to have him over to see the boys. Do I just go ahead and let him come to see them and not talk at all about the D and his idiot brother? Or, do I just say it is not a good time....

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16