In a bit of a mini spin cycle after last weekends text and call. No problem from the call... I think that went fine. The text message is a different story, probably because it is still on my phone. I usually delete them shortly after. I have one vent and one question... first the vent.
She started the longest text I think I have ever gotten from here with this...
"I want you to know you're a great husband. The best guy out there and it breaks my heart all the time that we aren't able to have a good physical relationship. I'm sorry for everything and wish we had both tried to fix things...."
My problem is, I heard this exact thing already, on BD day, 8 months ago. Why text me this? I didn't do anything to draw this out, she just started with that. It annoys me a bit. I ignored this stuff in our text exchange but when I read it I felt defeated to be honest.
Now the question:
During this same text exchange (which I think went fairly well actually), she said 3 or 4 times that we need to communicate. Communicate about what? Is this her way of saying things need to start moving toward D? I don't know. But how do I respond when she says that we need to be able to communicate.
