Kyh sounds like you are doing a really good job of not putting on pressure, validating where appropriate, but most importantly observing what is really going on with her. Keep up the good work!
xo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver