Sandi: The kids ask about where I sleep and I have just been saying that I fall asleep wherever I get tired. I don't know exactly how much to tell them since we aren't sure of what will happen and I don't want to traumatize them unnecessarily. Txhubby: you are right, I don't know how badly I hurt her, and I know that no amount of apologies will suffice for the breach of trust. I will say though that while I have made my mistakes in the past I have not been unfaithful for the past 8 1/2 years and have not wavered, even in the face of a lackluster sex life and my wife basically living for the kids and forgetting about me.
