Thanks Delboy.

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I also have never lived alone, which brings me to the question why you would like to live without your sons being present?


Well, there is me and three of them living here. We are crammed into a tiny apartment and to be honest, there is just no room. We don't even have a dining room table because one of them sleeps where the table would be. Also, they want their space too. I think the main reason is: I just want to get on with my life. I kind of feel stuck or trapped at the moment. I want to be "normal" again. Our living situation is far from normal. All of us work very odd/strange hours. With all of our weird working hours, I'm rarely able to enjoy my living room or kitchen because someone is almost always sleeping. Plus, I live a pretty large distance from my work. I'd like to be closer. They all live within 2 miles of their jobs. I live about 45-50 miles from mine.

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Tell me, if your lady friend asked you to go out somewhere would you jump at the chance?


Sure. I'd love to go out with her. Right now, we are just friends.

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Regarding you actually being sick from seeing dead animal's or from seeing them being treated badly. I believe you might need help regarding this issue.


You're probably right. I just have a lot of compassion for them, but it does seem a little extreme.

Thanks for the response.

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13