I'm kinda at the stage where I don't really know what my W is anymore. I guess I still consider her a WW because of some of the things she said regarding this OM but after her telling me that he also likes men, does she really see a future there...
My family and I have a theory that she expected me to pack up, go home and leave her everything, something I haven't done and now she is having to walk the path she set out for herself. I am not going to try and change her mind anymore and haven't for the last couple of months, there is only one consistent thing about her and that is her inconsistency. Her only answer to anyone is she is done, done, done. There doesn't seem to be any explanation to go with it.
Have been enjoying the time to find myself again, meeting new people away from work etc. Have a good day planned for Saturday as I've found the weekends hard with her still in the house. Out in the morning with my kids, then out to meet some new people for some drinks at night.
As mentioned here, it is the hardest thing we may have to deal with. My W has leaned on me for 10 years, now she suddenly wants to stand on her own 2 feet and the only way she sees how to do that is to split the family. I know she hasn't even done that yet, I know she is leaning on other people and I believe will continue to do so.
Anyways, take care all!! See what tomorrow brings.
