I'm really second guessing myself today. Did I do the right thing by telling her I wouldn't lake turns leaving the house as a form of separation? What about going back to the bed?

At this point I don't think there's an affair. Sadly, we've been down that path and I know the warning signs all too well.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done