surrealism is not my style

[Nel]

Cil, my friend, how are you doing? Keep DBing. I agree with broke in that this is a rollercoaster ride, and you have to hang on to survive. Try not to analyze every single interaction because it'll drive you crazy and get you off track. I think someone called it "paralysis by analysis." Just keep being the best YOU that you can be. You can not control any decision that your H makes, and I DO think it is a good sign that he is unsure.

I also don't like how everyone in my life is telling me to "move on." I think it was Cadet who posted to "move forward" instead. I like that so much better. Keep focusing on yourself and try to let your husband figure out his own stuff. I know it's so hard. I'm going through the same thing.

Nel