Thank you everyone for the support and understanding!! It has been quite the night and now day. Between nightmares and like of sleep to rage only the Hulk and fellow DBers know.

So I would like some feedback on this question. Sandi if you are out there would love to hear from you... I am thinking of sending her the following text. "Just going through my insurance stuff and your car is still on my policy. I just wanted to give you a heads up that I do not intend to renew it for March."

I just see this as her eating her cake and it has bothered me prior to last night as it is a pretty good expense.

Here is the flip side of that coin. I am rather sure when I do that I will get threats of S13 (which she may try and keep) and being told how I am controlling her. Also there is the timing with last night's events.

Please any feedback would be great. From wording to whether I should send or not.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16