Thanks to all of you for the support and comments. I know we shouldn't overthink every interaction and generally as many vets say the best course is to do nothing. In the end I guessed the W's book so there was no need for contact. Back to NC and GAL, and trying to find the next level of detachment. I know that soon I'll have to be in touch over finance and Easter holiday plans so find myself speculating and second guessing her response in advance which doesn't help when trying to live in the day. Thanks for all the support and strength given on this site, I read many sitches here but don't think I can give better advice than the many kind vets, I'm still feeling my way towards the light!
