Thank you for this thread. Your willingness to be open up about your mistakes and to help others, shows the type of person you are.
There are so many differences between the ways males and females communicate and even on their needs and expectations throughout the marriage.
Surely there must be a difference in the WAH and WAW? I actually asked about this when I first came on these boards. But very little about it.
Would love a thread about WH vs WAH. Although I don't believe we have any veterans on here that could speak on behalf of a husband that left their marriage.
The only thing I do notice is that WAH/WH seem to follow wives paying more attention to kids, career stresses and mother issues? It also seems rare for husband to leave unless OW involved (in my case, I have absolutely no proof or indication of OW)
Some people say that WAH has a better chance of returning then WAW? Or perhaps in many cases, WAH doesn't actually walk away but detaches and distances and stonewalls himself so much that the wife eventually becomes WW?
I have to say, when you described WW as being dead on inside, it reminded me so much of my husband.