I think the om left her but still has his furniture at her house because he hasn't found a place to live besides his parents. She claims they are done but are still friends. She still lives in the rented house and has told me she isn't in love anymore.
I told her we can't be friends and that that's a long way off for me. We were doing a little hanging out with the boys and small communication but it was messing me up so I stopped it.
She has agreed to come into to my counsellors office together Monday but it was at the request of my counselor and I think she is seeing it as a way to clear the air and move forward as co parents. Not any type of marriage counseling.
She came to me a few weeks ago crying about how bad her life is, how depressed she is. All about her. Telling me she didn't want to lead me on but pouring out her heart. I fell for it too. Thinking it was some kind of sign. It's not and I read your posts about that afterwards.
Her dogs go lost the day after I told her I couldn't be her friend and she called and texted me frantically all day. I ignored the calls and text and finally that night responded and said "I'm out with friends, not my concern any longer".
