Wife wants to leave but still at home 2

[Ojap]

When I think of 'hanging in there'...I have to internalize for myself and my girls. Not for my W or for our MR.

I want to 'hang in there' because I want to know, in the pit of my soul, that IF this does not work out...that I will have left everything on the field. That I did everything in my power to rescue the family unit. I want to be able to look my 3 girls in the eye when they ask the tough questions later in life and tell them I 'gave it all'.

This is not to say that I will be a doormat, that I will allow disrespect or negativity to rule. But I will be longsuffering and patient until it is clear that no way forward is available for our MR.

So...decide what you will give. Decide what it will mean for you to be able to lay your head on your pillow at night and have peace that you 'hung in there' and did what was within your power to do. For in the end...that is all you will be held responsible for.

Thoughts and Prayers Si_07