It is not for not nothing we keep calling it a rollercoaster. Not just the WS erratic behavior, but our own emotions. It's typical to feel strong and confident one day and despondent and down the next. Tomorrow may be better.
I am so happy to see that your brother is willing to help you financially! What a huge relief!
You achieved a lot yesterday, that was a huge effort and very empowering.
At some point, when WH asks and probes, I think you could say that you don't understand why he wants to talk to you all the time when he has left you for another woman. Ask him if he understands that it's making it harder for you to move on. You can do this in a non-accusing tone.
It's baffling to me that he is so pursuing contact.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
