Nygal, thank you for stopping in and giving me some encouragement! It means a lot!

Thorn, thanks for the heads up on a few people who have. I have some reading material for tonight now!

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home