Sorry to hijack, but Vanilla?

Can you pop over to my thread and look at my situation for past few weeks?
I don't believe there is an OW at this time, but I'm worried that maybe I'm allowing H to cake eat because I'm confusing positive interactions with H possibly fighting with himself about reconsidering R, but too stubborn to admit or go with it. I don't know if I need to adjust boundaries? Please and thank you.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.