Yes exactly

They leave to live a dream that probably will never materialize
the happiness they seek is not found from abandoning their existing responsibilities, and probably just the opposite will happen in the end.


From every person I meet who has strained their R with their Kids, I hear deep regret

Many of them seem to leave good environments, not really thinking through the losses that may be endured..

I have no idea what my XH financial status is at present
I know he has a wife 14 years younger than him, and she has a D who has many tattoos and smokes and is about our D age.I know he left behind a business and a home we furnished and decorated
he left with a suitcase full of clothes and left much of his clothes and shoes still in the closet(now given away)

makes little sense
But I do wish him the best and hope he found what he left to find-
I think I found what I needed through the process and looking back I am grateful he is gone-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow