Wife wants to leave but still at home 2

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I think the biggest thing to work on...is not letting the WW (WAW) actions control and steer ours (LBH). Thought a lot about that last night.

In regards to 'conversations' and figuring out who will take what at separation...maybe look at what 'you' want?

List it out....you prepare exactly what is going to best for you...what you truly believe is fair. You simply be proactive so that no part of the conversation is a surprise. Then...whenever/whatever is said by WAW...it really won't steer or control how you respond...b/c you were proactive.

Just my $.02