So events from yesterday. First she calls me at work to find out when I'll be home, once the kids were in bed, she asked about the course I'm on this week. I then sat at the table for an hour expecting her to want to talk about what she can pack and what we need to separate out as she had complained the other night of there not being time to 'schedule' talks. She never came out of her room once, I'm not talking in while standing in her doorway.