Originally Posted By: sandi2
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I'm debating letting her know remaining friends wouldn't happen. I know myself too well; I wouldn't be able to move past her. I would have to keep all communication related to the kids only. Should I tell her?


Has she asked? If she hasn't then don't say anything, but be ready b/c most of the WW's want to be BFF'S with the man they don't respect or want as a H!

Anyone can be her friend. Only one will be her H.





Thanks for commenting, Sandi. I've been reading your wisdom a lot lately.

She hasn't asked if we'd be friends. But at our therapy session on Saturday she mentioned that her dream world involved us living next door to each other raising our kids together being friends.

Tonight she mentioned "best friend." Details to follow in my update post--


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done