Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim.

[Sparkls]

It really is amazing how they all say the same thing. And we have to sit in limbo waiting for a fog to clear while trying to work on our sleves, when really we aren't the ones with the big problems that need to be addressed.

I'm sure others feel this way too but I'm super annoyed that I'm not even given the chance to improve myself when it comes to relationship troubles. I can't work on validation and non-judgemental when I'm by myself really. I can recognize the problem and try, but without practice, change isn't really possible