I Think it's Way Too Late

[TimR]

Hey 1313, yeah you missed one opportunity but there will be others. I can tell I have missed opportunities as well being caught of guard. NO BIGGY there will be more.

As far as the class, how often is it held. I have been thinking about it and after you are comfortable why can't you attend. W has a comfort level now because she believes you are a depressed mess and that gives her the power. But if these classes are held say every 3 months and you go into the next one all acting confident and the fantasy of the OM is wearing off, how could she not start thinking "uh oh maybe I made a mistake." Even if that is not what she thinks at least you are empowered because you got you mojo (confidence) back.

I think that is one of the things that really hurts the most. When they leave us they take our self esteem with them. We lose all our confidence and spiral down into self doubt.

As far as the business is concerned, business is business. If you are doing a good job she will not be able to sway people away from you, so one of your goals should be (and I am stealing this from someone else on here) "Kill it at work!"

Well I wish you the very best buddy. Remember, tomorrow is a new day!