- rarely argued until bomb drop - never good to show kids you bail when things get tough - I thought my H was logical and rational too!
It's almost scary how similar a lot of our stories are!
I think one of the hardest things is the rewriting of history to justify the affair. Of course things were so bad we were going to get a divorce anyway. It really wasn't the affair. It was because we had all these problems. Which were never discussed until after the affair started. So frustrating that we as LBS can see the pattern but they can't! The addiction to OP is too strong.
Hope you are feeling better tonight.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
