V -

That's why I'm so confused! I did a 180 for me and the kids to get over my raging anger about the A. So we could co-parent civilly. But he seems to think we are "friends" again. That's what he initially told me he wanted - a divorce and for us to be better friends than we ever had before. Crazy, huh?!

I'm not sure how to even set boundaries. That sounds pathetic I know but we don't live together anymore, he's filed for D, bought a new house and has told me on several occasions it's over. I'm not sure what boundaries to set.....he doesn't come in and out of my life anymore, I have no idea what's going on with the OW. We only really communicate about the kids.

I guess I'm in dire need of help in this area...


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16