Wow, mind is blown 13

[Uphill]

Well to keep it as an annonomous as possible on the details. She cried for about half of the convo while pointing out her own faults. Where she went wrong and why she kept digging herself deeper. Knowing her for as long as I do, if there were tears, it's genuine. She doesn't open up as deep as she did. And especially doesn't cry for nothing. The responses were mixed. I can't sit here and say I liked everything I heard, but who is gonna when dealing with the topic of an outsider in you family?

She was like an open book after the convo was started. If I asked a question, it was answered immediately without thinking. Some of the things I didn't want to hear were actually because I asked questions knowing I wasn't gonna like the answer but had to hear it for a piece of mind.

I also asked why I would trust that this wouldn't happen again. Her response was to start hysterically crying and said "I have wanted this to happen since a week after I left but I didn't know how to change course. I was on a highway to hell with way too much momentum."

I have a lot to process in my mind.