Well, I'll just say the no contact was due to my stipulation. I've just spent the last 3 hours on the phone with XF. Mainly listening while she was telling me different steps she has taken over the past few days/weeks. I heard a lot of things about how it happened with OM that I didn't care to hear but had to be talked about at some point. As long as it is all truth, I got many answers for unanswered question I had for months.

Ball is in my court as of the point I hung the phone up....to start trying to piece or cut my losses. That is the question which is gonna make this a sleepless night.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home