Pajo,

I really enjoy your vocabulary and articulation. You're an eloquent writer.

Correct, she was talking to the OM and now I see that she was threatening him in a way. Basically doing the Begging, pleading, and crying dance. The opposite of what I have done with her.

I will keep working on detaching, 180's, GAL, and be pleasant to be around. Try not to punish her with my hurt.

Thanks for the support my DB friends, I'll be on later and read up on your situations.