I would not classify her from a WW to WAW. I think she's the results of her waywardness. It is a long, hard pull for the WW to intentionally get her heart right, let go of the years of resentment she's held against her H, start showing him respect, and stop her rebellion against what is right for a wife in a marriage.

It is very, very typical for a WW coming out of an A to not have those loving feelings for her H. They have been blocked by her other negative feelings for a long time. Then, the OM was in her heart, instead of her H. So, it takes time for her to get the OM completely out of head (even after the A ends), go through the withdrawals, and hopefully, she will feel remorse for her behavior and want to do whatever it takes to save the M.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!