I do get where you are...I really do. I used to hate Ms. Wonka sending me short, impersonal emails/texts...not even putting my name on it for months and months. It was always straight to the subject without "Hi Wonka" or "Wonka."
As long as W is involved with W, don't bother trying to be charming or flirting. That happens when the OW/OM is out of the picture.
What works is being light and breezy when responding to emails/texts. And KISS!
Why don't you try and draft a response here? I think you're more than ready to give this a go.
